Misaali Shohar Ki Khoobiyan!
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
✾ Biwi Se Husn E Sulook Karne Waala Behtareen Shohar Hai:
Sayyidah Aisah رضي الله عنها kehti hain ke Rasoolullah ﷺ ne farmaaya:
"Tum mein se behtareen shaksh wo hai jo apne ahl wa 'ayaal ke liye achchaa ho aur main tum sab mein se apne ahl wa 'ayaal ke liye achchaa hon, jab tumhara koi sathi faot ho jaaye tou uski buri baaten karna chhor do."
(Sahih, Sunan Tirmizi, Lil Bani, Hadees: 3052)
Sayyiduna Ibne Abbas رضي الله عنهما kehte hain Rasoolullah ﷺ ne farmaaya:
"Tum mein se behtar shaksh wo hai jo apni auraton ke liye achchaa hai."
(Hakim, Sahih Jaame us-Sagheer, Lil Bani, Hadees: 3311)
✾ Biwi Ko Na Maarney Waala Shakhs Behtareen Shohar Hai:
Sayyidah Aisah رضي الله عنها farmaati hain:
"Rasoolullah ﷺ ne kisi khadim ya aurat ko kabhi nahi mara."
(Sahih, Sunan Abu Dawood, Lil Bani, Hadees: 4003)
✾ Aazmaish Aur Museebat Mein Sabr Karne Waala Shakhs Behtareen Shohar Hai:
Sayyidah Aisah رضي الله عنها kehti hain ke Rasoolullah ﷺ ne farmaaya:
"Jo shakhs betiyon ki wajah se aazmaya gaya aur usne sabr kiya tou wo betiyan us (baap) ke liye aag se rukawat hongi."
(Sahih, Sunan at-Tirmizi, Lil Bani, Hadees: 154)
✾ Biwi Ke Mu'aamley Mein Darguzar Karne Waala, Narmi Se Kaam Leyne Waala, Neez Biwi Ke Haq Mein Khair Aur Bhalayi Ki Baat Qubool Karne Waala Shakhs Achchaa Shohar Hai:
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه se riwayat hai ke Nabi e Akram ﷺ ne farmaaya:
"Jo shaksh Allah aur yaum e aakhirat par emaan rakhta hai usey jab koi mu'aamlah dar-paish ho tou bhalayi ki baat karey ya khamosh rahey, logon! auraton ke haq mein khair aur bhalayi ki baat qubool karo (yaad rakho!) auraten phasli se paidaa ki gayi hain aur phasli mein se sab se ziyadah thitri oopar ki phasli hai, (yani jitney oonchey khandaan ki aurat hogi utni ziyadah thitri hogi) agar tum usey seedha karna chahoge tou toad daalo ge aur agar waise hi chhor diya tou thitri hi rahey gi lehaza inke haq mein khair aur bhalayi ki baat qubool karo."
(Sahih Muslim, Kitaab un-Nikah, al-Wasiyah bin-Nisaa)
✾ Ahl Wa 'Ayaal Par Khush-dili Se Kharch Karna Achchey Shohar Ki Sifat Hai:
Sayyiduna Abu Masood Ansari رضي الله عنه kehte hain ke Nabi e Akram ﷺ ne farmaaya:
"Aadmi ka apne ahl par kharch karna sadqah hai."
(Sahih, Sunan Abu Dawood, Lil Bani, Hadees: 4003)
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه kehte hain Rasoolullah ﷺ ne farmaaya:
"(Agar) ek dinaar tumne Allah ki rah mein kharch kiya, ek ghulaam ko aazaad karne mein kharch kiya, ek miskeen par sadqah kiya aur ek apne ahl wa 'ayaal par kharch kiya, tou ajr ke lehaaz wo dinaar sab se afzal hai jo tumne apne ahl wa 'ayaal par kharch kiya."
(Sahih Muslim, Kitaab uz-Zakaat)
✾ Ghar Ke Kaam Kaaj Mein Biwi Ka Hath Battaaney Waala Shohar Behtareen Shohar Hai:
Sayyiduna Aswad رضي الله عنه se riwayat hai ke maine Sayyidah Aisah رضي الله عنها se arz kiya: "Rasool e Akram ﷺ! ghar mein kya kartey hain" Sayyidah Aisah رضي الله عنها ne farmaaya: "Aap ghar ke kaam kaaj mein masroof rehtey hain aur jab namaz ka waqt hota tou namaz ke liye utth khaday hotey."
(Sahih Bukhari, Kitaab ul-Adaab)
Reference: |Nikah Ke Masaail, Az: Iqbal Kilani حفظہ اللہ Page: 138-141|
Romanised: Syed Ibrahim